TL;DR last post I found out my husband had actually hired strippers for his bachelor party, not only that but he had gone out of his way to hire Rebecca (a close friend) and they hid this for four years.
Is it too soon to update?
I confronted them both, separately, they both gave two *very different* stories
Rebecca says that my husband got drunk, groped her and when she refused he pushed her and started to yell at her, apparently my husband and his friends believe I shouldn’t be friends with her because she “lead them on”
My husband says that they didn’t sleep together **but** Rebecca tried to initiate and performed oral while he was black out drunk.
I’m staying with my parents because I don’t know who to believe here or if I should I should even believe either of them, all I’ve done is argue with my husband since the confession.
I’m left more confused than ever and honestly, I just want to say f the both of them, but if my husbands story is true then he’s totally innocent, but what if Rebecca is telling the truth? What if neither of them are.
I’m sick of them both, I haven’t stopped crying since arriving at my mothers to be honest and I don’t think I can.
Why would he hide this for 4 years? Why would she?! If they both believe they’re fully innocent/victims here?
My husband *is* a mean drunk, but he’s always so soft spoken and I don’t know if he can do those things Rebecca claimed, but I don’t know how he reacts around his friends, but I’ve known him longer than Rebecca too? But I’m all for believing women, I feel like by agreeing with my husband I’m denying Rebeccas story/side.